
Although Rachel grew up dreaming of a family of her own, when she started her career in marketing and e-commerce, her laser-focus left her wondering if marriage and children would ever be in the cards.
But then, she met her husband, and soon after they married, decided to try for a baby. The following year, their daughter was born, and Rachel embraced the concept of balancing family and career with an entirely positive mindset.
"I think the best way to manage work and motherhood is to just tackle it head-on," says Rachel.
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"There's never going to be a perfect day, a perfect time, or a perfect situation to get everything done — you just have to dive in and juggle it the best you can."
They managed the juggle so well that the couple decided to try for another child. Rachel fell pregnant, but this time, things didn't go so smoothly.
"I had just landed in New Zealand when I started experiencing crippling pain and bleeding. I had never been through a miscarriage before, so I wasn't sure what was happening, but deep down, I had a feeling.
"This was one of the hardest times in my life. I was completely alone, away from my family."
That night, Rachel had a work presentation, but instead of cancelling, she pushed her pain away.