
Dear Angry Retail Store Manager,
My son’s autism presents its fair share of challenges. Achieving that which he sets his mind to is rarely one of them. So, when he decided over the holidays that he would get a job at your store, he knew it would be difficult for him. Yet, he pursued it with the tenacity he gives every thought that finds itself locked into his beautifully fierce mind.
But you wouldn’t know this.
At 18, he has become accustomed to advocating for himself over the years — a skill we have worked tirelessly at in countless IEP meetings at school.
But you wouldn’t know this.
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He completed his application on his own and secured an interview where although by law he has no obligation to do so, he disclosed his diagnosis to the hiring manager. We have discussed the pros and cons of this. I believe strongly that by being open about ourselves we offer others the opportunity to understand something they might not have understood before.
I have instilled in him that there is no shame in his diagnosis and that it comes with many strengths and some weaknesses, as is the case with us all.