As a young woman going into politics, I often get asked if there are different expectations for women. Or, more bluntly, is it harder for women. And the answer to that is, honestly, yes.
All the logistics aside (for example: how you manage to balance having kids with a career – something I haven’t even tried yet), the thing that frustrates me the most is how I’m taken less seriously by people because I’m a young woman, even though I’m a practicing lawyer.
At a local health cuts rally last year, a former senior politician was talking to me and the other local candidates (who were all blokes) and while he asked the blokes what they thought about various different policy positions, he then turned to me, told me I looked great, and asked me whether I had changed my hair?
I also happen to have a fairly high-pitched voice. Many people I trust in politics have advised me to work on lowering my voice. This means that when I’m addressing a crowd at a community meeting, introducing myself at a school P&C or doing a radio interview, not only am I trying to remember policy detail and key messages – I’m also trying to remember to breathe correctly and lower the tone of my voice.
Because god forbid I sound like a woman who is passionate about my community.
Unsurprisingly, the questions about whether or not I am planning to have children come up often, and I’m absolutely sure none of the male candidates get asked the same.