Samantha Brick you should know that women do not hate beautiful women

BY MESHEL LAURIE

Of course that British lady, Samantha Brick, who thinks that her “beauty” is the reason women don’t like her is a bit odd (you can read more about her here). She has problems and I genuinely feel sorry for her. The publicising of her malfunction is annoying because it perpetuates a myth that I’ve had flung in my face many times by men, which is that woman hate beautiful women.

I have been a woman for almost forty years. I attended an all girl high school, which was quite a bootcamp for bitchiness believe me! I’ve worked as a receptionist in brothels, where looks equate to income almost as transparently as they do in the television industry in which I dabble now. I currently have friends who are among the most celebrated beauties in the country, and I can honestly say that I have never known of a woman being disliked because she is beautiful. I’ve known a few who were disliked because they’re up themselves, but ugly people are just as good at that.

The prettiest girl in our school was Claire. She had long, silky blonde hair and a complexion like warm milk. She was also so very sweet natured, quick with a shoulder to cry on, tight with a secret, and didn’t take herself or her looks too seriously although she was well aware they were there. “You should enter the Dolly Cover Girl competition,” we used to say her, as we were convinced that no one in the world was as pretty as Claire. She would blush and wave us away. She was as smart as she was kind – what I would refer to today as an inspirational woman.

The most beautiful prostitute I ever knew was Tori. She was an exotic 6ft tall, olive skinned stunner, almost a bit Beyonce in those ads where they make her look thinner and whiter. She wore boots like Julia Roberts’ in Pretty Woman and she was transsexual which was not a secret from clients, but her greatest selling point. She was mostly loved by the other girls because she was very sweet, even though she was completely aware that she was by far the most precious gem in our shop. Those who disliked her did so not because of her beauty, but because of the clients they lost to her, and because she was very lazy about cleaning up after herself and yes, that was as gross as it sounds. Everyone was very sad for her though, when her excitement at saving enough money for a trip to Bali turned to sadness and humiliation because she was forced to accept a passport that said “M” for “male”. She dreaded all the times she’d have to show it to people and what their reactions would be. Even the jealous old shaggers took pity on Tori that day despite the fact that she was beautiful, she was going to Bali and she’d left a pile of terrifying towels in the hallway the night before.

Beautiful women in Australian television are completely commonplace of course. Spend enough time around a TV network and you’ll stop marvelling at their teeny tiny designer dresses, voluminous manes of hair and symmetrical, angular faces. You’ll find women like Kerri Ann Kennerly who’s beauty is undeniable but who has appealed to generations of Australian women because of her warmth and wit. Lisa Wilkinson, who’s charm and generosity endear her to millions of strangers. Carrie Bickmore, who’s angelic looks belie an emotional stamina that seems to know no bounds.

Women do not hate beauty in other women. We actually like to gaze upon it as much as men do, otherwise there would be no magazine/fashion/beauty industries. I don’t think anyone is keen on delusions of grandeur though which could be the real reason behind Ms Brick’s lack of dinner party invitations.

Some of the most beautiful women show their true beauty from inside and out. With no delusions of grandeur

Mother Teresa - Founded the Missionaries of Charity in Calcutta and helped the poor and sick for 45 years.

Germaine Greer is an Australian writer, academic, journalist and scholar of early modern English literature and is widely regarded as one of the most significant feminist voices of the later 20th century

Julia Gillard - Australia's first female Prime Minister and current leader.

Anna Bligh is the former Premier of Queensland.

Elizabeth the First - The last Queen of the Tudor dynasty, Elizabeth reigned from 1558 until her death in 1603.

Rosa Parks - In December 1, 1955 in Montgomery, Alabama, Rosa Parks, age 42, refused to give up her seat to make room for a white passenger. She was later known as the first lady of civil rights and the mother of the freedom movement.

Somaly Mam - a Cambodian author and human rights advocate, focusing primarily on needs of victims of human sex trafficking.

Coco Chanel - A leading French designer who founded fashion brand Chanel. Millions have worn her fragrances and designs.

Princess Diana - She was the People's Princess, charity role model and loved and adored by millions worldwide.

Helen Gurley Brown - Author and businesswoman, Helen was the internaitonal editor of Cosmopolitan magazine for 32 years.

Agatha Christie - British crime writer of novels, short stories, and plays. She also wrote romances under the name Mary Westmacott, but she is best remembered for her 80 detective novels

Aung San Suu Kyi - A force for democracy in Burma, she is an opposition politician who spent 15 of the past 22 years in jail for her activism.

Madonna - She made pop her own brand and has continually reinvented herself and her music, reaching millions.

Estee Lauder - Co-founder with husband Joseph of the cosmetics giant Estee Lauder.

Stella Young - disability activist and ABC's Ramp Up editor.

Florence Broadhurst - Australian designer and businesswoman who joined the Australian Women's Voluntary Services during World War 2. Her 1977 murder remains a mystery.

Oprah WInfrey, televsion personality and former host of The Oprah Winfrey Show.

Jackie Onassis Kennedy was the wife of John F. Kennedy later Aristotle Onassis. She is remembered for her contributions to the arts and preservation of historic architecture, her style, elegance and grace

Marilyn Monroe was an American model, singer and actress often cited as a pop and cultural icon as well as an eminent American sex symbol

Caitlin Moran, feminist, The Times columnist and author of How to be a Woman.

Professor Fiona Stanley - An Australian epidemiologist noted for her public health work, and her research into child and maternal health, and birth disorders such as cerebral palsy

Amelia Earhart was a noted American aviation pioneer and author and the first woman to receive the U.S. Distinguished Flying Cross awarded for flying solo across the Atlantic Ocean

Cathy Freeman - gold medallist Olympic sprinter and Indigenous role model. She carried both the Aussie flag and the Aboriginal flag at the Sydney Games.

Penny Wong, Federal Finance Minister.

Anne Frank is one of the most renowned and most discussed Jewish victims of the Holocaust. Acknowledged for the quality of her writing, her diary has become one of the world's most widely read books.

The Governor General Ms Quentin Bryce - The 25th and current Governor-General of Australia (the first woman to hold the position) and former Governor of Queensland

Cleopatra was the last pharaoh of Ancient Egypt and was immortalised in literature as a great beauty. Her successive conquests of the world's most powerful men are taken to be proof of her aesthetic and sexual appeal.

Margaret Thatcher is a former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom who served from 1979 to 1990.

Dr Fiona Wood is WA's only female plastic surgeon. She is world renowned for her patented invention of spray on skin for burns victims.

Nancy Wake was born in Sydney and served as a British agent during WW2. She became a leading figure in the maquis groups of the French Resistance and became one of the Allies' most decorated servicewomen of the war.

Julia Child - American chef Julia Child revolutionized American cuisine through her cookbooks and television programs by presenting an approachable version of sophisticated French cooking to her eager audience for four decades.

Martha Stewart is an American business magnate, media personality, author, and magazine publisher. She is the publisher of Martha Stewart Living magazine, has written several books and has her own talk show, Martha.

Emily Bronte was an English novelist and poet, best remembered for her novel Wuthering Heights.

Dr Rachael Dunlop, researcher and vaccine advocate.

Frida Kahlo was a Mexican painter, best known for her self portraits.

Florence Nightingale was an English nurse, writer and statistician. She laid the foundation of professional nursing with the establishment of her nursing school at St Thomas' Hospital in London, the first secular nursing school in the world.

Hillary Clinton is the 67th United States Secretary of State, serving in the administration of President Barack Obama. She was a United States Senator for New York from 2001 to 2009 and the wife of the 42nd President of the United States, Bill Clinton.

Lady Gaga is an American pop singer-songwriter. She has won five Grammy Awards and achieved two Guinness World Records. She has sold approximately twenty-one million albums and fifty-one million singles worldwide.

Jane Austen was an English novelist and continues to be one of the most widely read writers in English literature. Her novels are well-known and include Pride and Prejudice, Emma and Sense and Sensibility.

Joan of Arc is a Catholic saint and one of the patron saints of France after leading the French army to several important victories during the Hundred Years War.

Margaret Fulton - Is a chef, writer, journalist, author, and commentator. She was one of the first food writers in Australia and has sold over 1.5 million copies of her cookbook, The Margaret Fulton Cookbook, which encouraged Australians to be creative with food.

Marie Antoinette was an Archduchess of Austria and the Queen of France and of Navarre.

Helen Clark - is the second female Prime Minister of New Zealand and the first to have won office at an election.

Indira Gandhi - India's only female prime minister to date.

Michelle Obama - is the wife of the 44th and incumbent President of the United States, Barack Obama, and is the first African-American First Lady of the United States. She a notable advocate for poverty awareness and healthy eating.

Melinda Gates - is an American philanthropist and wife of Bill Gates. She is the co-founder and co-chair of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation and a former unit manager for several Microsoft products such as Publisher, Microsoft Bob, Encarta, and Expedia.

Naomi Wolf - is a US author and political consultant. With the publication of The Beauty Myth, she became a leading spokesperson of what was later described as the third wave of the feminist movement.

Nancy-Bird Walton -was a pioneering Australian aviator, and was the founder and patron of the Australian Women Pilots' Association

Ellen DeGeneres - American stand-up comedian, television host and actress. Her character in the Ellen show in 1997 also came out to a therapist played by Oprah Winfrey, and the series went on to explore various LGBT issues including the coming out process. She has won twelve Emmys and numerous other awards for her work and charitable efforts.

Jana Wendt - is an Australian Journalist, one of the first reporters on the Australian version of 60 Minutes, as well as filing stories for the American CBS 60 Minutes. She has been host of A Current Affair, also on Nine, a host of Australian Dateline on SBS and Witness on Seven.

Ita Buttrose - is the founding editor of Cleo which was ground-breaking frank about sexuality (and, in its infancy, featured nude male centrefolds), and later as the editor of the more sedate Australian Women's Weekly. She was, and still is, the youngest person to ever be appointed editor of the Weekly, which was then per capita of population, the largest-selling magazine in the world.

Meryl Streep - is an American actress who has worked in theatre, television and film. Streep has received 16 Academy Award nominations, winning two, and 25 Golden Globe nominations, winning seven, more nominations than any other actor in the history of either award. Her work has also earned her two Emmy Awards, two Screen Actors Guild Awards, a Cannes Film Festival award, four New York Film Critics Circle Awards, five Grammy Award nominations, a BAFTA award, an Australian Film Institute Award and a Tony Award nomination.

Tracey Grimshaw - is an Australian journalist and television presenter. She is currently the host of A Current Affair, and was a co-host of Today for nine years.

J. K. Rowling - is a British author best known as the creator of the Harry Potter fantasy series, won multiple awards, sold more than 400 million copies and been the basis for a popular series of films. In October 2010, J. K. Rowling was named 'Most Influential Woman in Britain' by leading magazine editors. She has become a notable philanthropist, supporting such charities as Comic Relief, One Parent Families, Multiple Sclerosis Society of Great Britain, and Lumos.

Lisa Simpson - is a fictional main character in the animated television series The Simpsons. She is the middle child of the Simpson family. She has been a vegetarian since season 7, converted to Buddhism in season 13 and advocates for a variety of political causes, including the Tibetan independence movement. Her environmentalism has won her Genesis and Environmental Media Awards, including a special

Oprah Winfrey -is an American television host, actress, producer, and philanthropist, best known for her self-titled, multi-award winning talk show, which has become the highest-rated program of its kind in history.[1] She has been ranked the richest African American of the 20th century, the greatest black philanthropist in American history.

Meshel Laurie is a comedian and broadcaster. You can catch up with her on Nova’s Drive Show with Tim Blackwell and Marty Sheargold 4-6pm on weekdays. You can also follow Meshel on Twitter here.

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