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Sophie Delezio survived two horrific accidents as a child. She just celebrated her 21st birthday.

In 2003, a brave little toddler captured the hearts of thousands of Australians when she became involved in an accident at the Roundhouse Childcare Centre in New South Wales.

That day, two-year-old Sophie Delezio suffered burns to 85 per cent of her body after she became trapped under a burning vehicle which had crashed into the childcare centre and caught alight.

She lost both her legs below the knee and her right hand and ear.

WATCH: Sophie Delezio on Anh's Brush with Fame. Post continues after video.


Video via ABC.

But this wasn’t her final challenge. Three years later, in May 2006, Sophie was hit by a car as her nanny pushed her wheelchair across the road near her home in Sydney's northern beaches.

This time the car threw her 18 metres from her wheelchair. The resulting injuries included a broken jaw, broken ribs, fractured collarbone and a punctured lung as well as bleeding on her brain and a heart attack. Just a month later she was released from hospital and had returned to school by July that year.

Speaking to Mia Freedman on Mamamia's No Filter podcast in 2020, a now 21-year-old Sophie shared that her parents were given the option to turn off her life support.

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"It was when she was in intensive care. We were given the option twice in the first week," Sophie's mother, Carolyn, recalled.

For Carolyn and her husband Ron, it was an impossible decision.

"No one had survived her injuries before, so no one could guide us about what quality of life would mean [for Sophie]," Carolyn told No Filter.

"She was in a coma and because the injuries were so extensive, she was on life support and she could have gone at any minute. We were just grateful for another 30 seconds with her at that time."

As Sophie slowly recovered from her injuries, Carolyn and Ron made an effort to avoid "wrapping [Sophie] up in cotton wool."

You can listen to Mamamia's full interview with Sophie and Carolyn Delezio on No Filter. Post continues below.

"If she was well enough to go out, she was well enough to go to the museum or to the aquarium or a walk on the beach," Carolyn said.

"As soon as she could have all her bandages off, she was not one to cover up. If it was hot, she would strip off and her legs would be out. Out and proud, she was. That was innately her."

Speaking on Anh's Brush with Fame, Sophie shared that her parents never discussed the potential of turning off her life support with her.

"It’s such a wild thought that a simple 'yes' and I would not be here," she said.

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"It’s something that’s always gone unspoken for our family. Just because we knew it was an option, and they chose not to, it’s as simple as that. They chose to hold on."

As she told Anh Do, Sophie still has brain damage from that second accident, which has affected her ability to learn, and she has lost her sense of smell.

One of the most common surgeries she had growing up was getting her legs trimmed.

Sophie with her parents after the accident in 2003. Image: ABC.

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"Because my legs were so badly burnt, and my skin wouldn’t grow but my bones would keep on growing, we basically had to cut them back every year to stop them because it would cause these major wounds. Every year I had it done, so it was just a normal thing for me," she told Do.

Every year she'd also get new prosthetics, and more recently she's loved the surgeries that have helped her grow her hair.

"I had these procedures called tissue expanders. I started with just a strip of hair, and every week you’d inject it with saline to stretch the skin and after two months they’d 'pop' it and stretch it all over my head. I have no idea about the science behind it all I know is I have hair.

"For me hair is such a distinct feature. I’ve tried wigs but I have such sensitive skin it irritates, and I get hot very easily because my skin grafts can’t release heat," she told the ABC program.

Sophie recently lived in London, where she's studied sociology and international relations. While in London, the 21-year-old lived alone for the first time without any carers or support staff helping her.

Sophie Delezio in 2008. Image: Getty.

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As she told Woman's Day, she has never let the accidents define her, or prevent her from achieving her ambitions, one of which was studying abroad.

"In my mind I'm not 'Sophie the girl with no legs' but someone completely normal. I think of myself as Sophie the chatterbox, the socialite, the girl who loves a good hamburger and enjoys each day as much as she can," she told Now To Love.

Ahead of Sophie's move to London in 2019, her father told Sunrise that he believes she's been ready to move overseas for years.

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"I think she’s been ready for this before the accident at two years of age," he said.

"She'd fall over and get straight back up again.

"We’re very proud of her. She’s very self-reliant now, street smart. She’ll do well."

Sophie wasn't bullied at school, but she was excluded from things because people just assumed she couldn't do them.

"But I’ve skydived, and I go to the gym five days a week," she told the ABC.

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During an interview on the Today Show in 2018, Sophie shared how thrilled she was to be getting her driver’s licence as a teenager.

"I need help most of the time just to drive me around because it’s harder for me to catch transport so just the fact that I’d be able to take myself places and not having to ask for that extra assistance," she said at the time.

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