
"I vow to remember that I am responsible for my own happiness and to practise loving kindness and compassion towards myself.
"I vow to see the best in myself even when I'm feeling down on myself, feeling conflicted and doubtful.
"I vow to open my heart and blanket myself with self-acceptance for all those parts of me that I disown and don't like."
These were some of the vows Robbie made on the day she decided to marry herself.
After the breakdown of her 20-year relationship, which blessed her with three children, Robbie found herself "searching for someone, and it just didn't happen".
"It was the culmination of a lot of bad dating experiences," Robbie told Mamamia.
"I got quite depressed and was diagnosed with anticipatory grief. It was that grief of, if I never find somebody, who's going to be my person? Who will I spend the rest of my life with?"
Robbie, now 59, began counselling, and practising gratitude. Then she had a revelation.
"I discovered the problem; it was that I didn't love myself. I had spent my entire life looking to others to validate my self-worth. But when I learnt to love myself, that feeling of 'Oh, I must find someone' just went away."
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