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Have you ever been stuck in a conversation with someone who you just know will use whatever you say against you?
They might twist your words or try to catch you out, using your conversation as a trigger to start an argument. Our natural instinct is to avoid people like this altogether, but sometimes that's easier said than done.
Narcissists are all around us. They might be our boss, our ex-partner or someone in our family. These are the types of people that we'd like to avoid but because of certain circumstances... we can't.
They're also the types of people that the 'grey rock method' was originally created for.
Also known as 'grey rocking', the method is a conversational tactic used when talking to people who have narcissistic or manipulative attributes.
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