
When Emily announced she was engaged to be married, her older sister was, of course, over the moon.
It was to be a beautiful, intimate ceremony, filled with love. What wasn't there to be happy about?
However, things soon became less joyous when Emily asked a strange request of her sister.
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"They decided to impose a 'wedding tax' on family members attending," the sister, who chose to remain anonymous, wrote on the sub-Reddit Am I The Jerk.
"They have a list of 'wedding expenses' — things like venue decor and catering — and they expect each family member to contribute extra to make it all happen," she continued.
"To top it off, her fiancé's family is also chipping in, making the whole thing feel less like a celebration and more like a business deal."
Stunned at her sister's request, the Reddit user couldn't bite her tongue.
"I told her it felt unfair to ask family to cover the costs on top of giving a gift," she shared. "I suggested maybe doing a more budget-friendly wedding so that everyone could enjoy it, but she brushed aside my suggestions.
"We had a huge argument about it, and it turned into a shouting match. I told her that weddings should be about love, not financial burdens."