For schoolkids, bathrooms can be a warzone, and as this student says, making rules about which ones they can and can’t visit are only going to make it worse.
Out of the seven-hour school day, I spend an average of two minutes in the bathroom. That’s it. Business as usual. No one bats an eye.
Just an hour away from where I live, in Frankfort, Kentucky, my business and the business of every other transgender student attending a public school is not as usual. In fact, it’s under scrutiny by a drafted bill titled the Kentucky Student Privacy Act.
The Kentucky Student Privacy Act, as proposed by Kentucky State Sen. C.B. Embry, would deny access to restrooms, locker rooms and other gender-specific spaces to students who do not identify with the gender assigned to them at birth. The act also suggests “compromises” with transgender students who fit these circumstances. In this case, the transgender student would have to use a unisex facility, which many schools do not have, or use the faculty restrooms.
To give a student perspective on this situation: The only private restroom space in my own school building is set away from general classroom areas and separated by two floors from most of my classes. The two minutes I take out of changing classes or instructional time for going about my business would turn into a longer period, taking a chunk out of my academic and social time. And along with that — it would create embarrassment and less affirmation for my gender. While assigned female at birth, I identify as male, express this identity and go along with my day as any other guy. The prospect of having to go out of the way to take special action due to private anatomy (hence the word “private”) is segregation.