
Tom Hanks was just 21 years old when he became a father.
The actor shares two children, Colin and Elizabeth, with his late ex-wife Samantha Lewes, and two other children, Chet and Truman, with his current wife Rita Wilson.
In a November 2019 interview with the New York Times, Hanks said his children with his first wife grew up with a different version of ‘dad’ than his two younger children.
“My son Colin was born when I was very young. As well as my daughter, but that means we have this gestalt understanding because they remember when their dad was just a guy trying to, you know, make the rent. My other kids, they were born after I had established a beachhead in every way. And so their lives were just different.”
Parenting is not easy, he said. But his love for his children knows no bounds: “The only thing really, I think, eventually a parent can do is say I love you, there’s nothing you can do wrong, you cannot hurt my feelings, I hope you will forgive me on occasion, and what do you need me to do? You offer up that to them. I will do anything I can possibly do in order to keep you safe.”
But according to Elizabeth, who is known as E. A. Hanks professionally as a writer and actor, her childhood was not as safe as her father would have hoped for her.
In her new memoir, The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road, Elizabeth has accused her late mother, Samantha, of abuse following her divorce from Tom.