Adolescence's Stephen Graham said he'd be dead without his wife. This is what he meant.

Stephen Graham won Best Actor in a Limited Series for Adolescence at the 2026 Golden Globes. Taking the stage, he delivered one of the most emotionally charged acceptance speeches of the night.

"One of the best producers ever — a woman I'm very lucky to be married to — my wife, Hannah Walters. I've said it before, but you saved my life," he said when accepting the award.

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When Graham said his wife saved his life, he wasn't speaking metaphorically — the British actor was sharing a truth that makes their 17-year love story all the more extraordinary.

How Stephen Graham met his wife. 

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Stephen Graham and Hannah Walters' love story began in the most unassuming way possible — as "bezzie mates" at Rose Bruford College of Theatre and Performance in London during the 1990s. Both aspiring actors, they formed a close friendship that would span years before blossoming into something deeper.

"We were bezzie mates, which is the best way, isn't it?" Graham told Leicestershire Live. "'After a while, we just thought 'this is daft', do you know what I mean? We like each other, we should get together." 

The turning point came when Hannah was about to move to Spain. That was when Graham finally asked her on their first proper date — to see Saving Private Ryan — followed by dinner in Greenwich.

Standing at New Cross train station, Graham made his confession: "Please don't go to Spain." When Hannah asked why, he replied simply, "Well, I love you." 

Her response? "She said she'd been waiting five years for me to say that," Graham shared. 

The next day, they moved in together. They've been inseparable ever since, marrying in 2008.

How Stephen Graham's wife saved his life. 

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Graham's Emmy speech wasn't hyperbole when he said he'd "be dead" without Walters. The actor has been remarkably open about his mental health struggles, including a suicide attempt in his early twenties that nearly ended his life before it truly began.

After moving to London to pursue acting, Graham experienced what he describes as "loneliness, isolation and [the] feeling you can't cope in the world." The pressure and isolation led to a severe mental health crisis that he initially tried to hide from his family.

"[My parents] were trying to see what was happening with me. I'll never forget the tears coming down both their faces," he recalled on BBC Radio Four's Desert Island Discs. 

"Then the next day I tried to hang myself. It was very calculated. I had to put on a high-neck jumper. My mum kind of saw it. Then everything came out. Life was worth living, thankfully."

It was shortly after this dark period that Graham started at drama school, where he met Hannah. Her presence in his life became a stabilising force, providing the love, support, and partnership that helped him not just survive, but thrive.

Stephan Graham and Hannah Walters' work collaboration. 

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What makes Graham and Walters' relationship particularly special is how seamlessly they've blended their personal and professional lives. The couple have collaborated on several projects together, creating some of the most impactful British television and film of the past two decades.

In 2020, they co-founded Matriarch Productions with the mission of "providing a much-needed platform for under-represented voices and stories in the UK." 

The company has produced Emmy-winning Adolescence, Boiling Point, and A Thousand Blows, amongst others.

Stephen Graham and Hannah Walters' family life. 

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Now, 17 years into their marriage, Graham and Walters have built a beautiful family together.

They have two children — Grace, 20, and Alfie, 18 — and live in Leicestershire. Their son Alfie has become something of a TikTok star, regularly posting videos featuring his famous parents.

The family even appeared together on Gogglebox, giving viewers a glimpse into their warm, down-to-earth home life that contrasts beautifully with Graham's often intense on-screen roles.

Their story is a reminder that behind every great success, there's often a great love — and sometimes, that love quite literally saves lives.

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