This week, we all loved the story about the breastfeeding mum who was helped by a teen employee at Starbucks. Well, almost all of us…
When Julia Wykes decided to breastfeed her five-month-old son in Starbucks, she never expected anyone to complain, but somebody did, loudly. An older woman demanded a teenage Starbucks employee stop the mum from breastfeeding and instead of acting on this loud complaint, the teen apologised to Julia and offered her a free coffee.
Since the incident Julia’s story has gone around the world, and she has been overwhelmed with support. The story soon went viral and many people took to social media to applauded the mum and the Starbucks employee.
“How lovely, I thought, especially since, as a midwife (when I’m not on maternity leave), I work hard to ensure my clients who choose to breastfeed have the best chance to successfully do so,” she has written for the Huffington Post.
But then, sadly, things have turned nasty. The sad reality of social media is that it also lets in those who love to slam anything and everything, leaving this poor mum to deal with further backlash much worse than that rude customer’s initial complaint.
Here are some of the more vile comments Julia has been subjected to:
“Neanderthals breastfed in public, we should evolve up not down!”
“Yeah, I’d stare at those titties if they were flapping around in Starbucks.”
“I don’t pull my pants down and piss in public, why should you whip out your tits and breastfeed? Attention seeking.”
Julia says the most shocking part of comments like these is the fact many came from women. "What shocked me most in all of this is how many of these negative voices came from women," she writes on the Huffington Post. "From the original complaining customer to those posting their comments online, I am truly afraid of what it means for our society that adult women find it acceptable to insult and belittle other women for breastfeeding in public -- basically for having breasts and using them as nature intended."