
When Bree Vare Lucas decided at 38 that she wanted to become a mother, with or without a partner, she never imagined her journey would include the extraordinary experience of delivering her own baby during a C-section.
Speaking to Mamamia's podcast Diary of a Birth, Bree opened up about her path to motherhood, from IVF challenges to what's known as a "maternal assisted C-section".
Listen to Bree's incredible story on Mamamia's Diary of a Birth. Post continues below.
From corporate workaholic to single mother by choice.
Before having her son Oscar, Bree described herself as "pretty much a workaholic", climbing the corporate ladder in HR within the retail industry.
"I was always someone who would do it for others and always put myself last," she told Diary of a Birth. "My love language is acts of service."
Despite her busy career, Bree had always known she wanted to be a mother.
"I said to myself that if it got to the time in my late 30s and I wasn't partnered up, that it would be something that I would do myself," Bree said.
When she reached 38, Bree took that leap and began her journey with Melbourne IVF. Unlike many women in her position, she approached her decision with complete confidence and no anxiety about telling family and friends.
"I was so set and confident in what I was wanting to do," she said. "All my loved ones and even work colleagues... they knew how much I wanted to be a mum."