
The decision to leave an abusive partner is "fraught with self-doubt", actress and producer Reese Witherspoon told Oprah Winfrey in 2018.
The self-doubt is made worse, the mother-of-three continued, “if someone damages your self-esteem”.
“There’s a range of abuse, there’s verbal and psychological abuse, as well as physical, that can be completely detrimental to your self-worth, your self-esteem and your progress in life.”
She was speaking from experience.
When asked by Winfrey, during a Super Soul Conversations video what was the most difficult decision she’d ever had to make to fulfil her "destiny", Witherspoon replied, "For me, it was leaving an abusive relationship".
And now, in a recent interview on The New York Times' The Interview podcast, Witherspoon has opened up further about the lasting impact of that relationship and her journey to recovery.
"I was very good at being a professional and showing up and doing the right thing, but I wasn't emotionally mature when I was young," she reflected to host Lulu Garcia-Navarro.
"You get into relationships that don't work for you, and sometimes you don't even see the dynamics that are happening."
She also opened up about how an abusive relationship left her questioning her own worth and identity.
"It took me a while to reconstitute myself," the 49-year-old continued. "My spirit had been diminished because I thought all those awful things that person said about me were true. I had to rewire my brain."