
When writer Rebecca Woolf finally decided to end her unhappy marriage to Hal, the father of her four children, she discovered that Hal was dying.
"Two years before the doctors diagnosed Hal with terminal cancer, we were preparing to end the marriage," Rebecca told Mia Freedman on an episode of No Filter.
"We were avoiding each other, we hadn't had sex for years, and I wanted out. He had been emotionally abusive, and it was not sustainable. When he told me he had stomach pains, I literally thought, 'Good. F**k you'. I had such hatred for him."
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Hal took himself to the emergency room, while Rebecca stayed home with their kids.
After some investigation and scans, Hal rang home at 4am with the news he had stage four pancreatic cancer.
"I remember the doctors saying he had likely had cancer for 10 years and I thought that I must be a witch — that I must have wished it on him and that somehow it was my fault," Rebecca told Mia.
"I think that a lot of those thoughts were to do with our marriage and how along the way I had internalised the idea that I must have always done something wrong."
Despite all that had happened before that early morning phone call, Rebecca found her wedding ring and went into the hospital to stay with Hal and advocate for him as his primary caretaker.