'You're never alone again.' 17 women on what parenting really looks like.

Social media can make parenting look like an endless stream of love, kisses and being #blessed.

Every second parent on Instagram can’t stop raving about how clever their little girl is (no she really is!) or how lovely their picnic at the park was with their two-year-old on Sunday.

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The reality is… much less glamorous.

What these highly curated social media images fail to communicate though is Sally’s two-year-old had a full blown tantrum at the park and threw yoghurt at her stepdad, or that Melissa’s little girl is one and, you know, can’t actually read yet.

So in the name of transparency, we asked the Mamamia community to share the unfiltered, dirty, messy images that portray what parenting is actually like on a day to day basis. Without the #blessed.

 

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Parenting doesn’t look the same for everyone. It mostly certainly doesn’t look as shiny as it appears on Instagram. We want to see what #parentinglookslike for you! We’re kicking it off with this: #parentinglookslike when you didn’t realise he knew how to open screw lids. Bye bye expensive face cream. – @mel_ricketts

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on May 28, 2019 at 12:05am PDT

 

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What parenting REALLY looks like… hug for sister… mama Mia is doing a call for more reality parenting photos online. I thought it was a good idea… what does parenting look like to you???? #whatparentinglookslike #parentinglookslike

A post shared by SPICE Intergenerational Play (@spiceintergenerational) on May 28, 2019 at 4:46am PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike trying to settle the newborn and the toddler wants to play… all day everyday. – Truan

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 1, 2019 at 2:17am PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike a quiet reprieve turned messy when I found my two kids curled up inside the lounge room rug with an open tin of milo. And the cat. Who clearly loves milo also. – Kate

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 1, 2019 at 6:42pm PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike many nights without sleep with the littlest being sick. Collapse on floor after dinner…everyone joins me. – Leah

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 2, 2019 at 6:47pm PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike Trying to have a bath while helping with homework …3 teens in the background arguing as well ???? – Erin

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 3, 2019 at 4:49pm PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike when you realise your toddler can reach top drawer of change table. Every day is cleaning up a new mess you didn’t realise they could make. – Jess

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on May 31, 2019 at 2:17am PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike this for me this week. Surgery yesterday to have my appendix out. Baby Evelyn is only 3 weeks old so has to stay with me. Above is me feeding her off one boob while expressing (with the help from hubby) on the other so he can feed her during the night. – @scentswbek

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on May 28, 2019 at 4:24pm PDT

 

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How do people get cute photos with their children? ???? – Sheridan #parentinglookslike

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 3, 2019 at 10:12pm PDT

 

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Standard Thursday – @sudocrem_au .. she’s a big fan.

A post shared by Katie (@tryhardmum) on Sep 27, 2017 at 9:20pm PDT

 

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Meanwhile, get a load of this little stingray.

A post shared by Katie (@tryhardmum) on Jul 8, 2018 at 6:54pm PDT

 

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Some mornings p a r e n t i n g looks like… Stickers Snuggles Pjs Chapter: Parenthood #chapterparenthood #chapterchildhood #parenthood #motherhood #childhood #parenthoodfeels #parentinglookslike #parentingwithheart #intentionalparenting #childhoodmagic #childhood #childhoodunplugged #littlefierceones #wildones #Summer #Australia #Aussiemum #momlife #mumlife #magicofchildhood #dontforgetdads #fatherhood #snuggles #booksinbed Signed, Floral pjs

A post shared by G a b r i e l a (@g_and_tribe) on Feb 11, 2017 at 5:06pm PST

 

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2 years ago ????

A post shared by Katie (@tryhardmum) on Aug 27, 2018 at 1:40am PDT

 

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What parenting looks like when trying to sooth your baby and enjoy your evening. Drisana HATED the fireworks. So we got into the truck, I nursed her till she slept and enjoyed the show and my glass of wine. #parentingdoneright #babygirl #4thofjulyweekend #4thofjulytantrum #fireworkshow #shehatedit #8montholdproblems #tattooedmama #tattooedparent #parentinglookslike

A post shared by Denise (@squeeks810) on Jul 5, 2017 at 2:43pm PDT

 

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I was a little worried about how I would get through the day but then Batman appeared and told me she’s got this, baby ???? . . . #phew #savedbythebat #batmanmagic

A post shared by Christine (@theslowclap_) on May 29, 2019 at 2:41am PDT

 

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#parentinglookslike juggling a cluster feeding newborn and toddler. – Sam

A post shared by Mamamia Parents (@mamamiaparents) on Jun 4, 2019 at 5:29pm PDT

 

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Daddy: “What can I do for you today?” Olivia: “Just a standard manicure thanks” . Easily one of the most terrifying duties of a parent #daddydaughter #fatherdaughter #dad #parentinglookslike

A post shared by The Momo Twin Experience (@momotwinexperience) on May 10, 2019 at 2:35am PDT

Parenting doesn’t always look (or feel) like it sometimes looks on social media. Join the movement, share your unfiltered parenting photos on Facebook or Instagram with the hashtag #parentinglookslike.