
In theory, family gatherings end with everyone's cup well and truly filled, right? You've just caught up with those you hold dearest in the world. There was laughter, merriment and fun.
What could be better?
The reality, however, is less joyous for some.
Take Christmas Day, for example. While the drinks may be flowing, for Kate*, the good vibes are not
"As soon as December hits, I get this sense of dread," Kate told Mamamia.
"It's hard to feel festive when you know you're about to spend a day defending your life choices or deflecting awkward questions."
Indeed, for the 36-year-old, entering Christmas gatherings is like "stepping into a pressure cooker".
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"Everyone's catching up, chatting about their kids, their partners, or their lives, and then they turn to me and say 'Soooo… still single?' I know they are probably just taking an interest, but there is an air of smugness and pity that I can't stand."
She'll try to change the subject or crack a joke, but Kate is always met with the same response: We just want you to be happy!
"As if my happiness or success only counts when it involves a partner or a baby," she said.