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Mindy Kaling and B. J. Novak fell in love on The Office. They were a 'romantic, toxic mess'.

Hollywood's favourite duo just gave us another reason to ship them forever.

This week, Mindy Kaling received her star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, and while that alone is worth celebrating, it was her former co-star and best friend B.J. Novak's speech that had us feeling... things.

In a moment that felt like it was ripped straight from an episode of The Office, Novak called her his "soup snake" — a callback to their days on the show. The phrase means "soulmate" in Michael Scott language, with Novak and Kaling using the words to describe their relationship over the years. And if that doesn't make your heart melt, we don't know what will.

"Congratulations, my soup snake," Novak said during the ceremony. "You'd be on the walk of talent if they had one. You'd be on the walk of friendship. You'd be on the walk of compassionate parenthood..."

 Mindy Kaling and B. J. Novak attend Mindy Kaling's Hollywood Walk of Fame Star Ceremony B.J. Novak made a touching speech at Mindy Kaling's Hollywood Walk of Fame ceremony. Image: Getty.

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Kaling also gave Novak a special shoutout during her speech, acknowledging his significance in her life.

"He's such an important and integral part of my family that sometimes I forget the reason that I know him is because we worked together professionally, and I'm as starstruck by him now at age 29 as I was when I first met you — at 24," she laughed. "I love you."

From 2004 to 2007, Kaling and Novak were, in fact, in a relationship.

The pair who met while writing and starring in The Office, played a couple who worked together and had a ridiculously tumultuous push-and-pull relationship.

And according to Novak, their real-life relationship wasn't much different.

At the 2023 Producers Guild Awards, Novak also presented Kaling with the Norman Lear Achievement Award in Television.

In his speech, he dished on their friendship, and former relationship.

Watch some of B.J. Novak's speech here. Post continues below.


Video from 34th Annual Producers Guild Awards via Mulderville.
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When Novak was 25 and Kaling was 24, the pair began working as writers on The Office and later featured in the hit sitcom.

"The first thing I noticed about Mindy in that writer's room was that she cared so much about everything. Her opinions were passionate and unstoppable," he said.

Novak then elaborated on their relationship, saying they soon were in love — but endlessly bickering.

"We were in love with each other. We were reckless idiots," he said.

"And the two of us would argue about all of these things forever, grinding the writer's room to a halt until we got too upset and we'd go to our respective offices and slam the door, where we would continue arguing over instant messenger. It was 2005."

Novak said that when the producers of The Office realised the pair's relationship had "jumped every conceivable boundary and become a tumultuous, romantic, toxic, boundaryless mess," they asked the couple to start doing on-screen scenes together.

And the chemistry and banter was clear between their characters Kelly Kapoor and Ryan Howard. It really was TV mimicking real life.

"We made it work, we made it through," he said.

When it comes to what their exact relationship status really was at the time, who knows? Even Novak himself has admitted that it was somewhat undefinable.

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"We were never really dating, we were never really not dating. We didn't know. No one knew," Novak told Vulture in 2012. "All you'd know for sure is that you'd always find one of us next to the other, even if we weren't getting along."

After The Office, Kaling went on to star, write and produce The Mindy Project, with Novak noting that a lot of her character's on-screen love interests often looked like him — something he liked to poke fun at.

Mindy Kaling and B. J. Novak in The OfficeMindy Kaling and B. J. Novak in The Office. Image: Stan.

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In his speech in 2023, Novak also commended Kaling as a parent, saying "She cares so much that she either knows what to do or finds out fast".

In 2017, Mindy had her first child, a daughter named Katherine Swati.

Then in late 2020, Mindy announced she had given birth to a boy, Spencer Avu. She had hidden the pregnancy thanks to lockdown orders during the pandemic.

Mindy has chosen not to publicly confirm the identity of the children's father(s), saying she has always been a single mum. Novak is a godparent to both kids.

For years, it's been rumoured that Kaling and Novak have continued to be in a relationship behind the scenes, and some have even questioned whether he is the real father of her children. But, like the queen she is, Kaling has remained unbothered.

"It doesn't bother me," she told Marie Claire, reflecting on the rumours.

He's the godparent to both my kids — and they have such a great relationship — and so far [the rumours haven't] affected my happiness at all, it hasn't affected my kids or B.J.

"If that's what is going to be titillating to people, I'll take it."

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Kaling also recently shut down the possibility of them still being in a relationship during her appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show.

"He is a wonderful friend and he is the godparent of both my kids, and he loves children and they're so attached to him," she said.

"He's really part of our family, but we've known each other for a long, long time and I think anyone who's been friends with someone for 18, 19 years and at one point dated and now doesn't, they maybe understand this.

"You have exes that you wouldn't necessarily marry now."

This article was originally published in February 2023, and has been updated since with new information.

Feature Image: Getty.

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