
Mike Zhao-Beckenridge was devastated when the courts awarded his mum Fiona full custody of him after her marriage breakdown with his stepdad, John.
It meant he'd be leaving John's house — a man he knew as Dad, who he'd lived with throughout the 18 months of custody proceedings.
He was immediately loaded into a police car and escorted from the former family home in Queenstown, New Zealand, to move to Invercargill with his mum and her new partner, Peter.
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From the moment he arrived in February 2015, he was hostile towards them both, despite their best efforts to help him settle into his new life.
Eleven-year-old Mike wasn't having a bar of it. He wanted to live with John.
"How my life is s**t... I hate my mom in fact she is not even my mom she fucked my life up so bad I hate her I have no love for, I hope she die painfully," he said in one of many desperate emails to John.
John Beckenridge came into Mike's life when he was a toddler. A helicopter pilot from Switzerland, he met Fiona in Afghanistan in 2006. Originally from China, she and Mike moved across the world with John and set up their life together in New Zealand.
Fiona was the stricter parent and pretty soon Mike and John became like "peas in a pod".
She thought it was lovely they'd grown so close. She had no idea it would lead to this.