Arguments about maternity leave have been raging on for years.
But there’s a new debate gaining speed over one woman’s struggle for “meternity” leave – and it’s not pretty.
Author Meghann Foye has argued that childfree women should be given time off work to pursue their personal goals, saying expectant mothers get an unfair advantage.
In a NY Post piece entitled “I want all the perks of maternity leave – without having any kids,” Foye writes that new mothers enjoy a “socially mandated time and space for self-reflection”that non-mothers may never experience.
"It seemed that parenthood was the only path that provided a modicum of flexibility," she writes, reflecting on her experiences as a busy magazine editor.
"There’s something about saying 'I need to go pick up my child' as a reason to leave the office on time that has far more gravitas than, say, 'My best friend just got ghosted by her OkCupid date and needs a margarita' — but both sides are valid."
She therefore proposes that "women and, to a lesser degree, men" should be allowed "meternity," which she defines as "a sabbatical-like break... to shift their focus to the part of their lives that doesn’t revolve around their jobs."
Perhaps unsurprisingly, Foye has faced severe criticism from parents, who are quick to point out that maternity leave is not a luxury holiday or a journey of self-discovery.