
Did they jump or were they pushed?
Five whole years since Harry and Meghan Sussex "stepped back" from royal duties, it's still a contested truth.
The "proper" royals, over in stuffy old England in their castles and manors, insist they tried to negotiate with a distraught Harry about staying in the fold, back in January 2020. Harry, in his book Spare, said that he and Meghan gave the old guard (including Queen Granny and his now King Dad) plenty of chances to get their crowned heads around a modern, less restrictive model of Prince and Princesses.
Maybe they could live in South Africa, and carry out duties from there? Maybe Canada? Maybe they could, I don't know, live in California, in a beautiful big house and be allowed to make their own money but still be royal-ish, spreading the word and doing good works?
We all know what happened to those ideas. Nope. Nup. Absolutely not.
And look what happened. A family estranged. Bonded brothers no longer talking. Several mighty media lawsuits, a huge row over who pays for bodyguards and accusations of racist royals being broadcast via Oprah.
And yet, five years on. Harry and Meghan Sussex live in a beautiful big house in California. Make plenty of their own money. Travel the world. Do good work. And are still a Duke and a Duchess, parents to a little Prince and a little Princess. A little more, perhaps, than royal-ish.
This week's debut of With Love, Meghan illustrates — in glorious neutral tones, scented with lavender and beeswax — what the royal family lost when Harry and Meghan decamped: Possibly the most perfect princess who ever there was.