"I was born with a micropenis. This is what happened the first and only time I had sex."

A man writing under the name of Jf has revealed his deep struggle with having a micropenis.

Published in Cosmopolitan, the writer says that his erect penis is shorter than the average flaccid penis.

“My micropenis is approximately 1 inch long when flaccid and 2.7 inches long when fully erect,” he wrote.

“It is also very thin. When flaccid, you might say it resembles two raisins flat on top of each other.”

The 35-year-old has only ever had one sexual experience and that was over 12 years ago, which has left him permanently feeling shamed.

When he took off his clothes, the woman looked at his micropenis and immediately began giggling.

As soon as I took off my clothes, I felt embarrassed. Image: iStock.

Despite his best attempts to sexually satisfy her, she was not at all understanding of his situation.

"...frustratingly, my micropenis kept falling out every time I tried to penetrate her. Even when I was inside her, she kept asking me, "Is it in?" Every time she asked me that, I wanted to die."

After trying to make her "happy" via oral sex, she didn't orgasm and eventually left annoyed by him.

Since his only sexual experience, Jf has remained ashamed of his micropenis, accusing the media of perpetuating women's single desire for a man with a larger penis size.

"From my experience...it feels safe to say that the overwhelming majority of women aren't thrilled about the prospect of sex with micropenises."

Jf asks, if you were attracted enough to want to have sex with someone, should it matter about his size? Is that the most important feature of a man?

He says, that while the stigma around micropenises continues to exist, he won't go looking for love.

"My deep shame about my body makes me feel like everyone else's opinion must be right, that there is something wrong with my size. I just wish people could look past it, so I could too."