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Bonnie Blue, Lily Philips and the grim truth behind their recording breaking sex 'feats'.

There is a new trend in the world of female Only Fans creators — to game-ify their sex-capades.

It's working. Their engagement is through the roof, as is the media spotlight, with their 'shocking' stunts leaving many clutching their pearls.

A week ago, a documentary following sex worker Lily Phillips, 23, sleeping with 101 men in one day dropped on Youtube, and at the time of writing it has more than 4.5 million views.

Watch: Lily's reaction after completing her day of sex. Post continues below.


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Now, she's promoting her next world record attempt — 1000 men in one day, which she's planning to do in January 2025.

Fellow creator Bonnie Blue, 25, is also shocking the internet with her 'sex feats' — an example being; asking random men on the street if they want two minutes with her, or to pass it on and give someone else four minutes.

In another recent video, she shows a line of dads and brothers (after previously having sex with their sons), and asks them, "Dads are you ready to bonk me?" before proceeding to make her way through the line-up of men.

@bonnieblue_xox my favourite type of day #bonnieblue #fyp ♬ original sound - Bonnie Blue

The questions and set-ups get mainstream views on TikTok and Instagram, and then their OnlyFans viewers get to watch the actual sex itself.

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It's racy. It's controversial. It's shocking. It's creating a lot of anger — all of which is directed at the young women.

Actress Imogen Eden-Brown summed up many of the frustrations of women, sharing on Tiktok, "We've spent so many years as a generation, we have tried so hard to eradicate misogyny and the idea of women being sexual objects for men to use as and when they want."

While you might feel frustrated by the message these women are perpetuating and encouraging, but it's actually the men's actions in these scenarios that are making me more uncomfortable.

Men who are willing and excited by the opportunity to have five minutes — or even two minutes — of sex with these women. To treat them like an orifice or an object amongst a conveyer belt of other dudes.

These women might be offering the service, but the fact there are so many excited to take them up on it is astounding. Yet, we're not seeing the same avalanche of vitriol directed at those who would actively participate.

@bonniebluesxo 2 minutes with Bonnie Blue alone, or double it and pass it on?#fyp #bonnieblue #freshers ♬ original sound - Bonnie

Do we honestly think if the genders were reversed, women would be lining up for five minutes of fun with a man, like he is a ride at a show? I can confidently say no.

One man in Lily Phillips' documentary travelled from Switzerland to London for a single night with the OnlyFans star, dropping upwards of AUD $2400 for mere minutes of sexual gratification.

As Phillips told the camera, she was getting pressure from the men to make them climax within their allotted time, with them showing frustration when they didn't — like she was a doll, or a toy or a robot with faulty batteries.

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At the end of her mammoth 12 hours of sex, Phillips broke down in tears as the magnitude of what she'd just done sunk in.

"I don't know if I would recommend it… Sometimes I feel so robotic. Just one in, one out, it feels intense," she said, adding that she found herself dissociating after a while and not remembering any of the men's faces.

Are you telling me these men were happy with that? Excited by that? That they enjoyed walking into her room as 'man 36/100'?

While there is nothing wrong with sex being transactional, but this is on a whole new level of terrifying. Not to mention, many of the men in these videos are quite obviously decades older than both Philips and Blue.

These men wait upwards of eight hours in a queue for their 'turn.'

@woodfordgolflife The town on the lash #bonnieblue #upthetown #fyp ♬ Original sound - Miguel★

As I watch these young women making millions promoting these 'conveyer belt' style sex stunts, it's hard not to think about how wrong it can go.

So as Phillips and Blue get all the flack right now, I am looking at the men, because quite honestly they scare me.

Their motives scare me. Their behaviour scares me. Their glee scares me.

Consent in these scenarios is not the only important value, and while that statement can be directed at the women too, at the end of the day this is making them money.

But it's the men's intentions that feel more morally sinister.

Feature image: Instagram @bonnie_blue_xox/lilyphillips_s


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