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'A single woman at my book club told me she missed sex. So I loaned her my husband.'

For most people, marriage means monogamy. And look, I get it. I had full intentions of getting married and only being with one man for the rest of my life.

When people find out that my husband, Hank, and I participate in "extra-marital activities", people always have the same assumptions.

"She must be agreeing to it because he wants to do it."

"I bet it's his idea."

"They won't last. They'll inevitably break up."

But that couldn't be further from the truth. I can confirm that Hank and I are incredibly happy, and we're just as attracted to each other as we've ever been.

I started as an OnlyFans creator in 2020. Initially, I was doing solo content. Then Hank joined in. Then we realised that we could grow our page (and our income!) by collaborating with other creators. We did discuss boundaries and made sure we were both comfortable. But to be honest, it wasn't something that we overthought or analysed. It just seemed natural and like a fun thing to try!

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But after the first threesome, I was HOOKED. There is something so sexy about watching the man I love get down and dirty with another woman. It was like I had unlocked a kink that I didn't know I had. I can't explain it, but it's so hot to me, and I was immediately obsessed with it.

I started talking about our adventures on my TikTok account, and people lost their minds. My TikToks discussing it has got literally MILLIONS of views.

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People in the comments had strong opinions on our lifestyle. Some people didn't believe I was telling the truth, other people commended me for being so secure. I didn't expect it to be such a big deal! Our marriage is so much more than just sex. Physical intimacy is just one small part of our relationship. I think it's a bigger problem if you're in a marriage with someone, and intimacy is all you have together.

We film a lot of the encounters for our OnlyFans account (with full permission, of course!) but other times, it's just for fun. We travel a lot, so it's exciting hooking up with people along the road. Our caravan has seen a LOT of wild adventures.

There's a single mum from the book club who was telling me how she missed sex, and it had been so long. So I was like 'You can borrow Hank!'. She thought it was a joke at first, then it happened, and it's a regular thing now. It literally doesn't bother me.

It's wild to me that people in the TikTok comments are convinced Hank will leave me. I literally let my husband rail other women, and I like to join in. Find another wife that is comfortable with that. Pretty sure he is Australia's luckiest husband!

With this sort of thing, it's such a personal decision and I understand that it's not right for everyone. But for us, it works perfectly, and I am loving every single moment of it. I don't see us stopping anytime soon. And if we do, then I'll always be able to re-watch the memories back on our OnlyFans account.

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