
You know that little spark you get when someone flirts with you? That confidence boost that makes you walk a little taller? Well, what if I told you that 90 per cent of people in committed relationships still enjoy these moments of harmless flirtation — and they're not afraid to admit it?
The term "battery boy" (or girl, or person) — coined in a recent Bustle article — refers to someone who gives you that extra charge of confidence and validation, all while you're happily committed to your partner.
Think of them as your personal confidence charger, no strings attached.
But why do so many of us seek out these playful interactions, and what makes them different from genuine romantic pursuits?
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"Flirting is a way of eliciting validation about attractiveness," Elisabeth Shaw, CEO of Relationships Australia, told Mamamia.
"Often referred to as 'harmless flirtation', it may be a mutual alertness to attraction and banter, while being very clear it will never be acted upon. Many people like the reassurance that they've 'still got it', and it is a boost to self-esteem."
When Mamamia surveyed people in committed relationships about their flirting habits, one theme emerged consistently: it's all about feeling seen, validated, and alive.