
I can vividly remember the moment I saw that faint line on a stick. It was in late September, and my partner and I had just been through our first round of IVF. We didn't think it was going to work after over a year of infertility struggles, but there it was. A real, actual pregnancy — finally happening to us.
While I knew pregnancy wasn't going to be a walk in the park, it didn't seem that bad. People talked about the nausea and exhaustion casually, like they were little blips in the general journey from conception to bump. "Ohhhh haha, I was so tired!" people seemed to say, laughing off what I assumed was that kind of exhaustion where you get home from work and want a quick power nap before dinner.
Plus, everyone made it look so cute? My social feeds are still full of blissfully happy women cradling growing tummies, wearing soft linen dresses or low-cut jeans with teeny crop tops, their bumps peeking out adorably. Everyone seemed to be all about this glowing pregnancy skin, incredible hair, a profound sense of femininity. Pregnancy looked like a magical time in life.
Well, that was all a lie.
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