The task of choosing what to wear to my Year 12 formal was perhaps one of the most torturous experiences of my life.
My body was… weird. Nothing fit. Even now, I’m not quite sure who fancy dresses are designed for, but they’re definitely not for me.
As if this period in a woman’s life isn’t traumatic enough, a school in the US recently gave a 21-slide presentation on ‘acceptable’ attire for prom, because, ladies, there are rules. And they are utterly ridiculous.
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The guidelines are incredibly detailed, but here are some of the highlights (translated from formal Catholic-speak).
No cleavage, please.
Boylan Catholic School: “The neckline of a dress, top or gown must be cut in a modest way without showing cleavage. Spaghetti straps or strapless dresses are allowed, as long as they are not low cut.”
Translated: “If you have breasts, a physical feature over which you have no control, you must dress differently to people who have smaller breasts. Do not show your breasts. Seriously. They’re confronting.”
