WARNING: This post contains descriptions of domestic violence that may be triggering to some readers.
A woman, trapped in a headlock, dragged across a supermarket car park by the man she loves.
That’s the haunting image painted by a domestic violence victim in an open letter to a better man, a decent man, a who stepped in and potentially saved her life.
The woman names neither herself nor her saviour in the powerful Reddit post, but the story is sadly all too familiar.
She wrote of being trapped for years in an abusive relationship, of violence that escalated over the preceding few days. Her car, phone, computer – any contact to outside world – cut off.
“The only reason he risked taking me in public was because the income tax return was in my name and he wanted me to cash it for him,” she wrote.
“I honestly expected him to kill me afterwards.”
And so, she found herself being assaulted outside Walmart, too afraid to cry for help in case it angered him further.
“As my husband dragged me in a headlock through the parking lot towards our car, I struggled to escape his grasp, hoping someone would notice and care,” she wrote to her saviour.
“You noticed, and more importantly, you cared enough to do something.”
The woman’s letter tells how this “average, somewhat timid looking man” holding the hand of a little boy stood up to her “large, intimidating” husband, telling him ‘You can’t do that, dude’.
“Your voice stopped not only my husband in his tracks, but several other nearby patrons. My hope of rescue began to build,” she wrote.
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