Family portrait perfectly captures what 10 years and 3 kids really looks like.

Warning: If you have been with your significant other for an extended period, and have children who like destroying your house and your sanity, the following picture could be a bit, um, too real.

Reddit user Trapiezist has been married to his wife for ten years. He posted the following image on the internet with the caption, “10th anniversary today, thought we’d capture the romance”.

Yep. That looks like ten years and three kids alright.

But don’t worry. It’s not all bad. After the image went viral, Trapiezist posted this lovely follow-up shot with the caption, “Yesterday you saw us at our worst, but I swear it’s a good life”.

Proof that family photos work better when no one is plotting to kill anyone else.