
In the lead up to the 2010 election, one of my girlfriends told me I had to vote for Julia Gillard. HAD to. Her reason? Because she’s a woman.
She pointed out that as the mothers of two daughters (as we both are), it was pretty much our daughter-mothering duty to vote for Julia Gillard.
Well that’s just bollocks, I thought. And said. Women shouldn’t get to positions of power by virtue of their vagina-holding any more than men should get to positions of power because of their penis-holding (and we all know they do more than they should of that!).
Gender shouldn’t play a role in a woman’s success. In fact, I argued, women who get to positions of power because they are women, are very possibly going to let the team down. They might actually send the whole movement backwards. If they are crap at what they do, then there will be plenty out there who will very quickly point to their womanhood as the reason for their crap-ness. It has got to be merit – every time it has got to be merit or we’ll never really be considered as the all-important equals.
"Women shouldn’t get to positions of power by virtue of their vagina-holding any more than men should get to positions of power because of their penis-holding."
My friend vehemently disagreed.
Julia Gillard was our first female Prime Minister – at that point achieved via what the media refused to accept as any method other than KNIFING. Our first female Prime Minister, voted by the public into the position, was going to be a beacon of hope for our daughters. For generations of girls to come. A symbol of YES YOU CAN.
But I was having none of it. I didn’t like Julia Gillard. I didn’t like a lot of what I saw her say. I didn’t want to vote for her. Nor did I like her opposition. I felt like, as an Australian voter, there was no one who was speaking for me. Not the man. Not the woman. But I couldn’t bring myself to vote based on gender alone. I wanted women to have equal opportunities but I couldn’t get my head around affirmative ballot-paper action.