Those who live alone happiest, more social
A study of single-dwellers in the United States has revealed what may be a surprising tidbit for those who assumed bliss was tied up in being constantly around people: people who live alone are generally happier. Eric Klinenberg is a professor of sociology at New York University and conducted more than 300 in depth interviews with ‘singletons’ across the States to gauge their satisfaction levels and found them to be remarkably happy – but moreso if they lived in a city. “Living in a city makes it much easier for singletons to get out into the public realm and contribute to the common good,” he says. He found that those living solo are more likely to eat out, exercise, attend extracurricular classes, public events and lectures, and volunteer. After all this socialising, for solo dwellers, nothing could be more appealing than retreating to their exile on main street. As for us, the Australian Bureau of Statistics estimate that by 2031, 3.6 million people will live in lone person households. Klinenberg added:
“The rising status of women has been essential to the change, because their economic independence and personal freedom allowed women to delay marriage or escape failing ones,” he says.
“Then there’s the communications revolution, beginning with the telephone and continuing to Facebook and Skype, because these technologies allow people to be connected even while they’re home alone.
“Urbanisation is a third force, because it created booming subcultures of singles who live alone, together in particular urban neighbourhoods throughout the world. Finally, there’s the longevity revolution, which has made ageing alone a common experience too.”