Dolly Parton has been married for nearly 60 years. She just shared the secret to a good relationship.

You'd be forgiven for thinking Dolly Parton's husband, Carl Thomas Dean, is a mysterious figure. Despite being married for nearly 60 years, Carl is the ultimate "off-the-grid" guy.

But recently, the 9 to 5 singer shared rare insight into her relationship with Carl while appearing on the Dumb Blonde podcast.

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"He's a good guy. He's quiet and I'm loud, and we're funny, oh, he's hilarious," she said. "And I think one of the things that's made it last so long through the years is that we love each other [and] we respect each other, but we have a lot of fun."

Dolly added that any time there is "too much tension" between the couple, either she or Carl simply cracks a joke to diffuse it.

"We never fought back and forth," she said. "And I'm glad now that we never did, because once you start that, that becomes a lifetime thing. I've seen it with so many people, and I thought, 'I ain't ever starting that'.

"I couldn't bear to think that he'd say something I couldn't take… because I'm a very sensitive person toward other people and myself."

The Jolene singer also described Carl as a "homebody" who "loves music" but "not the least bit interested in being in it".

Dolly met Carl in 1964, on her first day in Nashville, when he hollered at her from his pickup truck.

"He came up every day that week, and we sat out on the porch," she told The New York Times. Dean quickly knew she was the one.

"He drove me straight to his folks' house and introduced me to his mother and daddy," said Dolly.

A quiet ceremony in Georgia followed. "It was just my mother and Carl and me," the Jolene singer explained.

These days, Dolly has slowed down on touring to spend more time with Dean.

"I don't tour anymore… My husband and I are getting older, and I need to be with him," she told Good Housekeeping.

But don't expect her to fully retire. "I wouldn't know what to do if I retired... unless my husband was sick and needed me, or if I was sick," she said.

Indeed, her love for music has certainly made her one of the greatest country singers of all time.

But long before Dolly became the huge star she is today, her life was incredibly different.

Rising from living in poverty in rural Tennessee to dominating the charts worldwide, Dolly’s story is one of the most inspiring rags-to-riches stories around.

Dolly Parton's childhood.

Since skyrocketing to fame, Dolly hasn’t been afraid to share her tough beginnings in life.

In fact, the '9-5' singer grew up as one of 12 kids living in a one-room house in Locust Ridge, Tennessee.

Born fourth in line in the family in 1946, Dolly was born in a low socio-economic bracket, to tobacco-farming parents.

With so many kids sharing the small house, up to three or four children would sleep in the same bed each night.

Dolly grew up as one of 12 children. Image: Getty.

"The kids peed on me every night. We slept three and four in the bed. I would wash every night. And as soon as I go to bed, the kids would wet on me and I'd have to get up in the morning and do the same thing," Dolly said in a Playboy interview in 1978.

Weirdly enough, when the other children wet the bed, Dolly wouldn't even bother changing the sheets throughout the night.

Her reasoning as to why she did this points to just how poor the family were.

"That was the only warm thing we knew in the winter time. That was almost a pleasure to get peed on because it was so cold," she explained.

"Lord. It was as cold in the room as it was outside. We'd bundle up to go to bed."

In the interview, Dolly also shared how the children washed themselves in the river during the summer months using soap they made themselves.

On the other hand, in the winter months, bathing meant using a tiny pan of water in the house.

"We'd have a pan of water and we'd wash down as far as possible, then we'd wash up as far as possible..."

Dolly Parton performs in September 1977 in Detroit. Image: Getty.

The death of Dolly Parton's brother.

With so many children in the growing Parton family, Dolly's mother often gave the older children greater responsibilities when it came to helping raise the younger kids.

"My mother, through the years, when we were born, since there were so many of us, used to say, 'This one's gonna be your baby'," she said.

"That just meant that you got to take extra care of it. You have got to get up with it at night and rock it back and forth."

But just four days after Dolly's "baby", her little brother Larry Parton, was born, the newborn tragically passed away.

"There is a lot of heartache and stuff that goes on with that," Dolly said.

At the time of Larry's death, Dolly was just nine years old.

Dolly Parton performs in 1975 in Los Angeles, California. Image: Getty.

Dolly Parton's childhood accident.

As a young child, Dolly's family couldn't afford to visit a doctor.

So, when Dolly had an accident which almost resulted in the loss of three of her toes, Dolly's mother was forced to play doctor.

“So they grabbed me up and all my dad and my brothers, they had to hold me down," Dolly recalled.

"They put kerosene on it for antiseptic and Momma took her sewing needles — she used to make our quilts and stuff, and she literally had to sew my toes back on. But they worked and they healed and I’m still walking on them."

How did Dolly Parton become famous?

At just 10 years old, Dolly started singing and playing guitar on Tennessee TV and radio shows.

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Dolly's uncle, Bill Owens, saw potential in the young girl and introduced her to Cas Walker, a man who had created a radio program and a local TV show called the Cas Walker Farm and House Hour.

Before long, Dolly was performing as a regular on the show.

A few years later in 1959, Johnny Cash introduced 13-year-old Dolly to the stage at the Grand Ole Opry. Her performance was so popular, the young teen earned three encores.

Once Dolly graduated high school, she was on the first bus to Nashville, Tennessee and from there her booming career in music truly began.

This article was originally published in November 2023 and has since been edited.

Feature Image: Getty/Instagram/@dollyparton

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