
Content warning: This article includes descriptions of sexual assault.
Hi, I'm Evie, I'm a solo mum and I don't date.
I haven't been on a date or — shock horror — been with a man since my daughter was born 15 years ago. I'm sure many of you will think I'm being extreme, pity me or suggest I go out and search for a fling. But I'm actually more than okay. In fact, I would argue that as a solo mum I'm in a far superior position than many partnered women.
I want to say from the outset that I fully support mums who are choosing to date again. And that I know some very awesome men are fabulous friends, partners, fathers, stepfathers, brothers, sons and uncles. If the men in your life aren't a risk to solo mums and their children, then this is not about them.
This is about the men who target solo mums to get to their children.
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When I unexpectedly became a solo mum shortly after Em was born, the thought of being with another man was not even in my consciousness.