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Jaida Wand is 17 years old and has just started her final year of high school. While most graduating students are busy thinking about the giant holiday they’re about to take, Jaida’s been making decisions about something other teenagers seldom think about: her fertility.
The Sydney student was diagnosed with stage 3 Hodgkins Lymphona in 2013. “I was in denial and I was terrified of losing my hair – I was 16 and I wasn’t ready to be bald. I was so embarrassed,” Jaida recalls.
As if that wasn’t enough to take in, she then found herself in a fertility clinic the next day, discussing the prospect of motherhood.
"I just remember being in the waiting room in my pajamas thinking, 'This is so wrong'. It was so overwhelming - I just thought I was still a baby," Jaida says.
The specialists were unsure as to whether Jaida's cancer had impacted on her ability to have children, so she decided to take pre-emptive action.When Jaida finishes her HSC, she'll undergo tests to determine whether cancer has affected her fertility. Depending on the results, there's a good chance she'll have her eggs frozen.
"I was still reeling after being told I had cancer - then I had to be told, 'Oh yeah, and you might have your fertility affected, you might not be able to have kids'. It was a double whammy," she says. "I just had to make the decision - when I thought about it, I just went, 'I want to be able to have kids when I'm older, I don't want my cancer to define me'."