What no one tells you about your baby’s first birthday.

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The morning of my baby's first birthday felt… strange.

A bit like the calm before the storm — if the storm involved a tiny human who had just discovered cake exists and had absolutely no boundaries when it came to sticking their fingers in it.

But watching my one-year-old wobble around with frosting everywhere but their mouth, I was hit with all the feelings: pride, relief, exhaustion and a huge sense of awe.

Because seriously — how on earth is this tiny human already one?

While the day wasn't just about the party (though, honestly, the cake was a highlight), the real weight of the moment was in everything that had come before it: 365 days of chaos, giggles, wobbly first steps, midnight feeds and the tiny triumphs that only you really notice.

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And mixed in with all the joy, you remember the trickier bits too — the fevers that came and went, the teething tears, the post-immunisation grizzles, the nights when nothing but a cuddle would do.

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Turning one.

The emotional freight train of a first birthday.

That first birthday hits differently.

One minute you're celebrating surviving the sleepless nights, endless nappy changes and those middle-of-the-night meltdowns.

The next? You're quietly tearing up because your baby isn't a baby-baby anymore.

At the same time, you're amazed — and maybe just a little terrified — by the little person they're becoming.

There's this strange tug-of-war between celebrating the milestone and mourning the baby days slipping away.

It's messy, it's beautiful and honestly, it's a lot to take in.

And just when you think you're holding it together, you find yourself scrolling through those early, blurry "What have we gotten ourselves into?" photos — proof that time flies and sleep doesn't.

The pressure to make it "meaningful".

If you've been anywhere near social media in the lead-up to the big day, you know the vibe.

Colour-coordinated balloon walls. Themed smash cakes that look like works of art. Babies dressed like tiny influencers.

The internet can make you feel like you need to deliver a Pinterest-perfect first birthday party that would make even a wedding planner sweat.

But I'll let you in on a little secret: Your baby doesn't care. Not one bit.

They won't remember the theme or whether the decorations matched the plates. But they will enjoy being surrounded by people they love, the sound of laughter and happy voices and the cake — definitely the cake.

Because meaningful doesn't have to be elaborate. It's about marking the moment your way.

Whether that's a big party, a backyard BBQ, or just you, your baby and a cupcake, the real magic is in the connection — not the decor.

Want to go big? Go for it. Prefer to keep it low-key? That's perfect too.

The day is a chance to pause and soak in the fact that somehow, you both made it through a year that was equal parts exhausting and extraordinary.

The invisible moments that make the year.

Beyond the milestones that get all the attention — first steps, first words, first time they throw food across the room with alarming accuracy — the first year is made up of thousands of small, invisible moments that shape you both.

The 3am cuddles in the dark. The gummy smiles that make you forget how tired you are. The way they light up when they spot you from across the room. The pure joy of watching them discover that peek-a-boo is, in fact, hilarious.

Messy, unfiltered, often fleeting — but absolutely unforgettable.

They're the memories you'll carry long after the balloons have deflated and the last crumb of smash cake has disappeared.

The pride you didn't see coming.

If the first birthday does anything, it makes you stop and look back — not just at how much your baby has grown but at how much you've changed too.

You're no longer just "winging it" (well… not entirely).

You've built instincts, earned confidence and survived the longest, shortest year of your life.

Over these 12 months, you've been the midnight comforter, the fever detective, the teething whisperer and the champion of a thousand little victories.

You've learned to read your baby like a book and somehow survived days that stretched forever and nights that felt even longer.

And here you are — a year later — with a toddler bursting with curiosity, chaos and personality.

You did that. You got them here.

So yes, celebrate the first steps, the first words, the first "sleeping through the night" (even if it only happened once).

But don't forget to celebrate yourself.

Because the first birthday is just as much about your survival and growth as it is theirs.

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