If all women had wives, would life be easier?
It was the point that Annabel Crabb made to perfect in 2015, in her best-selling book The Wife Drought.
“What we’re really meaning by that,” the Fairfax and ABC journalist, and host of Kitchen Cabinet host says, “is ‘if only it was somebody else’s responsibility to pick up all this stuff’. The stuff that drives you crazy in the end is not having a family, which is the most lovely thing ever, and it’s not having a job, which is fulfilling in other ways.”
“It’s when the two of them are in constant yammering competition.”
And that is the dilemma so many women face. But as Annabel points out, the fault is not in choosing one over the other, it is in holding one above the other- in “assign[ing] a value to either of those pursuits.”
So how does Crabb pursue three children, a career in political journalism, writing non-fiction and hosting a cookery-meets-politics television show?
With about 81263 cups of tea for a start.
She starts the day with one, “I will probably have three more before the school run. I hammer them down. I don’t drink coffee, coffee makes me anxious, but I drink a lot of tea.”